My thoughts exactly, WTF. How did you find out about the wedding?
It's only separation my friend, please don't stress too much (I know its hard). You just have to fly low for now and hope that the R with OM fizzles out. Just don't make my mistakes with the snooping (which I did early on), the least you know the better.
It is so hard to DB when you know all these things. It plays into the hands of the OM.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
