How funny all our sitches are playing out the same. I suppose this is the rollercoaster ride.
But who knows, things can change and often do with time. I just have to manage to slow mine down a touch (without pissing wife off even more by prolonging it, and her eventually taking me to the cleaners in the D).
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."