Don't feel bad about your sitch, its great news. I am so happy for you, just keep doing what you are doing.
She wants DD with her, but she said that she would be fair with the custody (due to my differing working hours and days).
I suppose I do have a little more time on my side (re house sale etc). W also mentioned that due to the extreme stress (and now a medical condition due to this) she wants to take a week off in July to "get away". I sort of joked and said, "Great, DD would love to go with you". You can just imagine her reply.
The thing is, I know she is going with OM, and it will annoy me that I will be funding this trip.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."