I know the OM is not the problem, but I still reckon that if he wasn't in the picture, it would be a different story.
Even in Feb/March, she told her SIL that there was a possibilty that we would reconcile. But since this R with OM has hit full throttle, she is fast forwarding a closure between us.
Sad thing is, DD still has no idea. I am picking her up from school today, and taking her to soccer practise. She was so happy this morning when I dropped her at school (I have today off).
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
