Just remember, even if your M gets back to normal, or the way you want it ... there will always be good times and bad. IOW, you won't always be treated the way you want, and there will be times when you won't treat her the way she wants. One has to find a way to not have too high expectations of our spouses, because it sets us up for disappointment and resentment.
As long as the general thread of our M's is positive, then we can handle the down times, I think.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim