Is it a test maybe? She was hoping I'd flip out and just give up, say screw it and do everything for her. She's been thrown off to some extent by my not acting like an A$$, but actually making changes to myself that she likes!
I am going to approach this as a test. She is probably going to see how I react to this. I am not even sure if she filed or not. She said she did. Maybe she wanted to see how I reacted. I don't know. I am going to keep doing what I am doing. I have read in Homer's book that a woman never leaves a happy man. I have so many great qualities, she would be a fool to leave me. I am not perfect, but she is OUT of her mind. I am not going to obsess and beat myself up any more. One day was enough. I am just going to keep doing what I was doing, be friendly, nice, and keep GAL. We've been down this road before and she ended up backing out. She was very emotional and started to realize what a big mistake she was making. Not to mention, we have had a history of separating briefly and then getting back together. In the past, it was a few days and then we were back together. Now she has brought a new element into the picture to attempt to seize control by threatening our marriage. I am not going to let it bother me. She knows that D3 wants us together. I don't believe that she'll break up our family knowing that D3 loves us both so dearly. Our marriage isn't bad. It does need some work. Last time all it took was for someone to challenger her thoughts and to look at our marriage from an outside perspective. She knows that she is wrong, I am not going to tell her. Time to detach and be the happiest guy when I see her. I'll start 'acting as if' things will work out in the near future.
