Wife gone...Is there hope

[Nomopo]

Hi strange. Good summary in your post. So sorry to hear about what has happened, but very glad you are here. I think you sound like you are off to whale of a start on DBing, so good for you! A couple of thoughts occur to me. First, I don't have all the facts and figures in my head, and I suspect you have seen this in your research, but they say these affairs often run their course. I've heard the time of six months thrown out there. You may have to just wait it out (if you are willing to do that). Second, is there hope, yes there is hope, but there are no guarantees that you will save your marriage. Buy I will guarantee you that you can control your own life (your actions, your words, your thoughts and, most importantly, your happiness) - and that is worth something my friend.

Nomopo