You are right about the OM not being the issue. I hope her C can find out exactly why she is so unhappy. It is such a positive that she is going to C. My W just gave up on our M and is not interested in trying, and will never see a C (eventhough she is text book MLC and needs it for herself if not the M).
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
