I don't believe it's my boyfriend's or H's responsibility to keep me from "roaming" in the relationship anymore than it's my job to keep them from roaming.
To further clarify, I don't have a boyfriend AND H!! I just meant that in any relationship I don't consider it the man's JOB to keep me from straying from the relationship!!!
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus