1965, great to see you have moved to piecing! Read over your sit, your wife sounds very much like my h, as far as the talking goes. He wount really talk about much, he wount talk about his feelings. He does tell me he loves me and wants to be married. I have asked him to do MC and IC and he wount, he feels it will just open everything up again. I go to IC and he is terrified that they are going to tell me to leave! So he is in a way trying to get me to stop going, which I wount. Like you I wanted answers, there was and still are alot of unanswered questions, but I had to ask myself do I really want those answers, what would it change by me knowing, would it make it harder to forgive and forget, and for me the answer was yes, so I have decided to leave it alone and try to work towards the future.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
