Why can she be nice and friendly and get along AFTER D, but not while you're married? I asked my W that and she couldn't/didn't answer.
Good question. I believe because right now she is reacting based upon her emotions. She thinks that she'll be happy. She even admitted that things are going to be really hard for her because we have been together for 11 years. I did ask for us to spend small time together leading up to the circus. She said that we will get our first chance at the circus. She made a comment about baby steps. She did admit that we will need to start doing things with D3 eventually. I still can't believe that she needed to file
