Why can she be nice and friendly and get along AFTER D, but not while you're married? I asked my W that and she couldn't/didn't answer.

Give her some space, I'll bet she waffles a LOT more before it's all figured out. Good luck!!!

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...