I must have missed that debate. You're talking to a guy who would like to share a snowball from his wife, so what do you think. My wife enjoys it, I have made her orgasm from it. She just never "WANTS" it.
I actually think I would probably really like your wife if I met her. She sounds like about the most mellow woman alive.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver