Hey Rob!! Sorry I didn't post until now. This is all normal... SD had it right with Post traumatic Stress .... I think we will be on our guard for some time to come... I know I am (although more later, have to update my own thread with good news).
When you say "well if she's going to lay all that on me again I'll walk" I don't think that is necessarily a bad thing... it lead me to think "am I REALLY happy with myself, am I being the person I wanted to?". if the answer is no then carry on working on yourself and hope that the WAS will follow... if the answer is yes then detach, detach, detach .... it's all about not letting THEIR moods affect US. hard, I know.
Chin up Rob - you are a true DB master and will come though this, bouncing back bigger and stronger.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.