We must be psychic twins because I just posted my new and improved version of what I really meant to say but still hadn't worked out quite right in the above post to BF. Maybe I still don't have it worked out quite right. Clearly, I don't want a trapper-keeper tote boy -lol . I just think a man would feel more happy and secure in a relationship with me if I was tough/brave enough to be clear about what would make me happy. I would think that any man who didn't wish to start a career as a psychic (although as I mentioned above you do seem to have the skill-lol)or be in a relationship with an unhappy woman would prefer that sort of thing.
If I end up being such a chicken-sh*t that I find myself in a relationship with a man without having told him that I pretty much want it on a tri-weekly basis and how important I consider being with someone who is GGG would be, I will resign from this BB in complete shame. Really I have no clue what my level of desire for verbal validation within a functional relationship would be. I'm pretty certain that I can do without the opposite for pretty much forever.
I'm curious as to why my statement annoyed you so much. Do you have a difficult time saying stuff like "I am crazy about your hot *ss." even if it is true. - lol .
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
