Eventually, something will give---the secrecy and covering one's tracks will become too exhausting and the OM will eventually push Mrs. Choc to make a "decision" about the marriage. Which will play out in your favor...she will waffle and vacillate between you and the OM.
Well, in defense of MrsChoc (I guess), maybe she is not waffling between MEN at all. Maybe she is just tired of the life she has been leading and wants to be more independent. I mean, does she really think dating this 10 year younger guy is THE issue? I doubt it. If she has some insight, she'll realize it is not about men at all, but about being Herself. Sure, she is using the younger man to give her the "push" but I still say there is more going on here than just getting her off the "affair high." Yes, that needs to be dealt with but that is probably not going to fix the problems. Choco, I don't have words of advice. Just hoping that you are going down the right path. You are doing an amazing job so far and no matter what happens, it seems as though you are going to come out of this whole thing just fine. LFL
