Already headed that route. I just have to be careful w/ the judge we've been assigned. I don't want to get on his bad side. As my L has put it, "He's not a womb advocate, but he doesn't like people playing games." My hope and plan is to stay calm. We're looking at a possible temporary custody and restraining order to make sure Ss are safe. Also hoping that W keeps pulling a bunch of this stupid s*!$ and hangs herself.
Unfortuntely, or maybe more realistically, I don't think this is going to be one of those salvageable S or M. W dove head first back into, or never came out of MLC. Everything is now about her and its "owed to" her. I've actually started to feel sorry for W. She's so caught up in trying to improve herself that she doesn't see that she's hurting her Ss and destroying the most precious relationship she could ever have, her Ss. I hope it doesn't end up that way, but I see S8 growing up resenting her for what she's doing.
Spoke w/ S8 just a little bit ago. He's playing golf w/ GP. Called me @ the turn. Says he having a blast. Grabbin' a bite to eat then finishing the round.