Filing is a weird thing. My wife filed right away when she kicked me out of the house, and hasn't done much since that was over 2 months ago. She claimed she's 100% done yet, she isn't???
The weird thing is that two years ago we separated for 6 months (failed to mention this). We separated in November. She talked about filing after 3 months. (Same thing right now). She filed in late March. I was snooping, calling her relatives, begging, etc. She said that if I didn't do any of that she would have came back to me sooner. After she filed, I suggested that we go to counseling. Answer was no. I filed for conciliation counseling. WE spoke to a court counselor and he said our marriage is not bad at all! He said he was surprised to even have us in his office. He suggested counseling. My wife agreed to go. I suggested Retrouvaille, my wife wasn't sure at first. Then a week later, she told me in person that she wanted to go. I got excited and told her that I booked our reservations and she said, sorry and that she doesn't want to go. I was upset! A month later, she suggested that we go and she was ready to try. Retrouvaille was amazing. After the 2nd night, she said she loves me and thanked me for fighting for our marriage. We were back together again, happily. She cancelled the D.
Now we are back in the same spot. I wonder if she'll come back to the marriage. We have separated everything out of our house. She is moving into a new house that I signed off on. I didn't want to argue over it. She needs a place to live with D3. Our money is separate. Our only link is D3. I have been down this road and it only lasted 6 months. I am not sure if my wife will repeat history and realize that she does love me.
