AC wrote: "You think that might have something to do with it?"
If your relationship is in such a state that you haven't had sex in two years, and your wife flew off to meet up with another man, then I would say that your marriage has some serious boundary issues in addition to other serious issues.
So, yes, it most certainly has impacted the relationship negatively.
As for the visit becoming physical, you might as well treat it as if it did regardless, because the real betrayal came in the form of the emotion that caused your wife to climb on an airplane to go meet her potential soul mate.
Speaking generally, the sexual part of a romance for a woman is simply an extension to the act of being in love. It doesn't carry the same importance to her that it does to you. In other words, she betrayed you. Period.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
