\:\) ROOT's advice is so dead on.... she puts into words so well WHAT YOU NEED TO DO~

...some OF THOSE things.. I also did.
FOR EXAMPLE....
MY h got on the subject once of me dating and that it was ok... BS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I told him I wasn't ready but when I was " HE WOULD BE THE FIRST TO KNOW!" HE GOT PALE. ( AND HE IS DARK COMPLECTED... ) ;\)

EVERYTHING SHE SAID IS AWESOME. Good for you getting stronger... I am so proud of you.
GOD bless....