Sorry you're going through this right now. Rest assured, he will regret all those hurtfull things he said to you. It sounds to me like you are dealing with an alchohol problem here. That just compounds and complicates things. It also means you have to be extra vigilant to not allow him to hurt you. Pick the right time, when he's sober, and give HIM some sobering news.
It is not OK for him to speak to you the way he did, under any circumstances. This will take great courage on your part, but you are the one standing on fertile soil, don't forget that.
Don't beat yourself up over calling your GF's BF. You should stand your ground. Why is it OK for your H to talk with that crazy woman, his workmates GF, but it's not OK for you to talk to your GFs BF. That is very unfair. You should'nt allow him to control you that way. Just stand your ground, tell him that you'll talk to whomever you feel like, when you feel like it.
Regarding the sex, him calling you a nympho. Just matter of fact tell him, yes, I love sex, but he'll have a lot of work to do before he'll get any from you again. He's bullying you so don't cower before him. Kick his ass!
No matter what happens, you have done the absolute best things for your R. Don't let your H's moment of weakness drag YOU down. Stand tall, fearless, and faithfull. Put on the armor of Christ, and go fight for what's right.
Love,
COG
PS I'll be sharing some GOOD news on my thread.
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444
