good for you! I think I did the same thing once, appologizing for getting upset or whatever and if I remember right, he did seem kinda annoyed or not as welcoming as I thought he would be. I think maybe they are uncomfortable.. I mean, guys usually don't like to talk about feelings anyways, and that's all us women talk about!

him saying "your kinda driving me nuts" almost makes me laugh. What does he think he's doing to YOU?!!! It's like we're hanging over a clif by a thread and if we fall we will hit insanity!

however, they already let go, so I guess that's fair. ;\)

I know it sucks because your thinking, okay, you decided to come back, why should I have to wait for you to try to do the right thing. You should just DO it. But we have to remember, we are all human, all sinners, and all very influencial by the world. And your being a very strong lady for owning your choices and letting H do things on his time.

Definitely have a wonderful work trip! Your room sounds awesome! Maybe you and some coworkers can go out?


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."