She's still rather reserved but she's starting to see the light. Something I think is encouraging is how she in little small ways see us all together as a family again. But she's got a long way to go until she's comfortable with it.
I met with our priest this morning and he mentioned how she internalizes so much but feels she doesn't lack feeling. He believes just the opposite that she's a very highly emotional person but she keeps it all in. I absolutely agree and I suspect she feels stronger about all of this then she's letting on with me.
One thing I do feel is that her long time high school girl friend with whom she's reconnected with isn't exactly encouraging her down this path. I find that disturbing to say the least. Especially now that this woman is trying to win business from me and my company! I've known this woman nearly as long but nearly as well I right now I do not trust her. IMHO she's going to be the fly in the ointment a bit too much because she's been very encouraging to my wife on getting out and establishing her independent life. Then again maybe once she sees positives with my wife and me she'll change her tune but I doubt that. If you ask me she's more than glad to help destroy our marriage then espouse all about her wonderful marriage and how marriage is such a great thing.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa