I can see that you have been a very bad boy. What shall we do with you? I, for one, am hoping that the universe sends you your puishment in the form of a lady who is "hell on wheels", who you just can't ignore and who forces you to live and not overthink.
For the record - I am a terrific wife. It is one of the things I do best. Even ex-H recognized that and tried once to get me back when I already had one child with H. How crazy is that? I am not the only one out there who can be a wife without being a doormat, who knows about loyalty, fidelity and honor, who doesn't "let herself go" etc... My ex-H just mismanaged his time - he thought that a "good wife" would accept a bad husband, provider and father indefinately. He was wrong. I am also a good mother and a person - neither of those could allow that to continue. I see several other ladies on this board who are probably terrific wives. Those of us who are good wives were probably great girlfriends too. Think about it - how else did we get to be wives?
