if he was just there for emotional support and you were just temporarely smitten and you have cutten ALL ties w/him, let it die.
Right now you need to work on the lying. Are you lying jst about the smoking or about lots of things? are making a habit of it? Bear the consecuences and tell the true, make a point of it. And to to a C now.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.