I have not and will not look. It may be hard for someone to understand but even if we get back together I don't care if she still TALKS to him. He is in another state so there is NO PHYSICAL contact. That Will be one of the deciding factors in my R. She did it once. Ok I can forgive. BUT.....It is to NEVER happen agian. Talking to him I don't care

Husband

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know