I think you are right Whatis.....

I am too emotionally beat up, but you make very good point in working on this from a position of strength.....which to me would be from a distance.....

It takes a lot out of me to do things from a vengeful perspective, but I also agree that I should talk to her about filing for separation.....on calm terms....without the drama....

I am too tired to fight (yell, etc..) but will simply talk to her. I have told her about the legal implications of this whole sham and she just takes it in one ear and out the other.....she doesn't listen, and from learning about the petition getting approved, she is even more determined to follow through.


Well, I am going to follow through myself.

Last edited by sol1696; 06/05/07 02:40 PM.
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