I think this event is what has made me turn the corner in regards to my own PMA and emotional detachment. I have been an emotional cripple (hidden from W) and my self confidence is fairly low (seeing what she has settled for in OM).
I even told her (wrong thing) that she could have least picked someonw taller and better looking than me, and that he should thank god that he has you as you are way out of his league, and if you were not in your emotional state due to me, he wouldn't have had a chance with you.
This was said a few weeks back, I have ceased all R talk and OM talk since then. You Know, if you were to look in the dictionary under "muppet" I reckon his photo would be there.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
