Having a little trouble sleeping tonight. It's midnight over here, and I have to get up in 6 hours.
My inconsiderate W got home at 11:30 tonight, after going rock climbing with OM and whoever else is in their click. She leaves at 6:30 and spends all evening with them.
When we were happy, My W would be flat out staying up till 9:30 most nights. We would watch some telly, and a tea and then she would go to bed whilst I watched some more.
Its funny how MLC changes people, she is now a night owl and seldom comes home before 4am on Sat nights, and 11:30 on weeknights.
The problem I had tonight was she was talking on her mobile phone in her bedroom, which I could hear in my room, then she rushed out of the house and drove off at 11:30 after she got home.
This woke me up, and I then when I started dozing off, she got home a few minutes ago just after midnight, which woke me up again due to closing so many doors when she prepared for bed.
It doesn't affect me as far as the emotional side of what she is doing, but it annoys me that she could be a little bit more considerate. I am starting to accept things as they are and I think the annoyance is coming into play, with a realisation that the inconsiderate side of her personality (the one I have overlooked due to my love for her over the last 17 years) is starting to settle into my opinions of her.
I hope this is a good thing, as it is helping me cope with this sitch.
Anyway, sorry to vent in your thread, but I feel much better.
Also keep your PMA going. Try to drag your 4 days into 5, and so on and so on. If you do have a bad day, get back on the horse and strive for a longer period.
My thoughts are with you buddy, keep doing what you are doing, you are my hero now.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
