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The majority. For the "ladies" anyway alot of their ages are @ the mid-thirty range (walk away ones). Looking for something different. I do not know , maybe it is just me noticing the similarietys(sp?)with the dimise of my "R".


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Well I guess we have been pretty much Married for 8 years even though it was not legally married so I guess it could be considered the same thing.


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Crazy aint it


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Nothing in any of these sitchs makes anysense.

That is the main reason I quit trying to think of my sitch in a logical way. Just does not work.

OH Life goes on...


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Nothing in any of these sitchs makes anysense.

That is the main reason I quit trying to think of my sitch in a logical way. Just does not work.

OH Life goes on...


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T2,

I think most of the worlds sees S as the same as D. Where I live, you have to be S for year to get a no-fault D, so people do file for S a lot and then convert it to D. For all intents and purposes, they are D'd (in their minds, at least).

I know that you feel it's morally wrong, but those of us who do are really a tiny minority.

If you've done your best to share your thoughts with her, that's probably all you can do. Have you given her a copy of DR?

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Lack of a better term "A Do Over".


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Nicola,

Yes I gave her my copy to read. I gave her every book I had read in the last 2 years. I am hoping it is just a phase she is going thru. The thing that gets me is she knows how upset her kids will be when they find out. She is hiding it from them. I find that unfair. I know they don't need to know everything she does but knowing how it upsets them if she even talks to a guy......

I guess to each his own.











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Well I guess we have been pretty much Married for 8 years even though it was not legally married so I guess it could be considered the same thing.


I started dating H when he was a 17 and I was 20. (I know, shame on me) We will have been married 18 years on the 17th of this month. Been together 20 years. It is tough. Maybe that is why I have the strength that I have. I spent half my life with him.











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Do I get the "was" a birthday card this month or do nothing?
Just throwing that out there to everyone.


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