My W to was glowing there for awhile because of her happiness with the OM. I do not know where their R is rightnow, but, that glow is gone. I have read that in the beginning of A it lifts them out of depression and they feel that life has been breathed into them again.. For most, this does not last and when the A starts to wear on them they typically slip into a deep depression.
I agree with you, I to want my W to be happy though I want the R with the OM to crash and burn. In my sitch they have stepped on alot of people and I would like them to reap what they sow.. Hopefully this will happen before they hurt more people.
Take Care.... Go have some XXXX.... Your doing well my friend.
-ERC (I used to have an Aussie room mate, so I have heard that XXXX is a good Aus. beer)