OM/PA, MLC and the hits keep coming............

[andyv]

Thanks Husband,

I am so happy that your sitch is getting better with each day. Please keep doing what you are doing, and do not snoop on the phone account. This was one of my problems and it never did any good.

I think that maybe this may be your W's way of possibly smoothing things out for you and her, just in case she decides to come back into the relationship. The nice things she is doing may be her way of mending a bridge to cross back over.

I have my fingers crossed for you.

I value your input into the mood changes. I really have to ride this one out. Regardless of the info I have recieved from SIL, things do take time and homes don't sell overnight, so I have to pull my finger out at last and never backslide again and leave my wife with this good "mood" she is experiencing.

That last input you mentioned regarding W's best friend had me thinking also. I am definatley not ready for anything right now, but her BF is an amazing person, and I am glad that they are friends.

She knows our sitch. But like you said, if things do get to closure with divorce etc, who knows.

It is good to have an allie that is close to W, and there is a lot of positive stuff getting back to her. She is also keen to attend another game next week with me and my friends, the State Of Origin Rugby League game, which is bigger than Ben Hur in 3D. This is being played on a Wed night (kick boxing night) and she told me she would rather cancel her KB night and go to the game.

This will make W a little peeved, as BF is her sparring partner. Also, Husband, you will be prettty proud of me. This BF is 24 and a real stunner. All my younger friends that went to the soccer with us were bowling each other over to talk to her. But she pretty much stayed by my side for the entire night.

I think the book that DNQ emailed me may be working, it's called "How to be attractive to women". It is like an attraction manual similar to DB and DR, with steps on what not to do and what to do in certain situations, and what women really want.

Good stuff, I hope some of it gets back to W.