Kausion, I am sorry that you are in this situation. Many have filed and then reconciled. I know of a recent couple who actually divorced and are now getting married to each other again. Go figure! I know there are things you can do by stalling the divorce etc.

Keep DB'ing it will help you come out of this a better person. It is possible we make rash and quick decisions, based on feelings and emotions and not what we really want. I have made rash quick decisions many times and then regretted it. I hope this is what your W is doing.

There is always hope! You have just been thrown a curve ball, try a new strategy. Check the boards about divorce. You might get some good advice. Good luck!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"