You would know her better than anyone, if you think she is really confused, then keep DB'ing. Get detached and all that good stuff. Hang in there and keep the chin up.
Just the way she acts and talks to me, I can tell she is not done. I will detach and move on.
Kausion, I saw a quote either from Tia or Michelle (or maybe they quoted someone else???) but it was basically, waiting around for your WAW isn't going to help anything. Leave the door open for reconciliation but focus on yourself and your daughter. I think you see that, it sounds like it from your posts. Don't give up faith and hope, but don't sit around waiting for your W to come around either. When the time is right, she will.
She IS confused, she's unsure of her feelings, she's tormented, I dare say. Her pride will not let her give in to you coming back so "easily." There has to be work, there has to be drama, there has to be even "excitement" (I know, makes no sense but, there you go).
Keep working on yourself, keep doing your thing, make sure your daughter knows she is LOVED, and your wife will figure out her stuff. At least you get to see her sometimes.
Filing is a weird thing. My wife filed right away when she kicked me out of the house, and hasn't done much since that was over 2 months ago. She claimed she's 100% done yet, she isn't??? I don't get it, but I also don't sit and stress about it (too much ). The emotional issues do not equal the legal issues. it's hard, if not impossible for the WAW to see the difference, but you can.
Good luck, and don't give up.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
). The emotional issues do not equal the legal issues. it's hard, if not impossible for the WAW to see the difference, but you can.
