How do any of us decide how to walk (run? crawl?) this journey? I want H to sit down and eat with us -- or at least sit down and eat with the boys -- but he just won't. He seems to need to do it by himself (although he isn't really since he's living where he is through the good graces of his friend!). If he said he would eat with us, I don't know that I wouldn't jump right up and make him whatever he wanted. At the moment I think I'd have some restraint, but the thought that making him food might bring him back could be enough to make me lose my strength w/o thinking.
Still, D, have you considered what type of a 180 not doing DH's laundry would be? Scary! - yes, but might it be something to startle him?
Not trying to criticize, just a question, sweet.
Today's sunny and if I can get the finances done this morning, I think it will be another good "dark" day. We'll see...
