Well it seems things are on the steady. My W went out and bought a wireless router for my lap top. Then she spent about 3 days trying to figure out how to set it up. Last night I was sitting watching the T.V. and she brought my lap top to me with a big smile on her face. She put in on my lap. She did it. I told her awesome. I knew she could do it. Then when it was time for bed I went onto the sitting room where the W was and again told her thanks. I she was sitting and I was standing about 8 feet from her, I held my arms our like you would do if you were going to give someone a hug and said: here “I’m throwing a hug your way” she laughed and said all she did was following directions. I don’t want to over analyze things. Part of me thinks “What‘s up? Is she setting me up for a let down? Part of me thinks maybe she is doing nice things because she see’s I’m doing nice things for her. I DO NOT KNOW. My son and I are leaving Sunday for our trip. Today when I get home I’m going to ask the W if I get a sitter, if for father’s day she will go out with me for dinner. There is this nice little club that I found during one of my GAL sessions. I kind of feel bad that my sitch is going ok. Sorry to hear about yours taking a turn. Don’t take her mood change to mean anything aginst you. She probably seems happier now because the pressure of hiding her R with the OM from the family is released. The family is still in shock. When they get over the shock she will begin to feel the unhappiness they will probably have about it. That’s when you having a positive attitude and detaching will shine in her eyes. What ever you do try not to say anything about the OM. And if she starts complaining to you about something her sister said or anything someone in her family says or does that is UN aproving about the OM. Listen and say things like “I’m sorry you feel that way” or “that must hurt”. Or just nod your head. BUT don’t make suggestions or show your agreement with your in-laws’. You want her to come talk to you not the OM. If you don’t give her the ear she wants to bend he will.
"Even her post MLC best friend (the one that came to the soccer with me and my friends) finds me amazing and would love to have someone like me, and has told W." Keep this one on the back burner.If things don't work out between yuou and the W........
Of course this is just my opinion.
Take care mate
husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
