OM/PA, MLC and the hits keep coming............

[andyv]

Hi ATGB,

Man, 18 months together with OM.

Thanks for you post. I really do want my W to be happy in life, but a side of me want's her to really regret leaving me, as weird as it may sound.

The thing that sucks is that every time I get my life on track (GALing), she manages to bring me back down again. The good thing is that it is bringing me down less and less.

I have not discussed anything with her R wise, no OM talk etc. I helped out when W wsa sick and bed ridden for nearly two days, and DD was sick on those days also.

I am looking fitter and more toned now than when we got married over 13 years ago.

Even her post MLC best friend (the one that came to the soccer with me and my friends) finds me amazing and would love to have someone like me, and has told W.

She told me she had a fantastic time with us (which would have gotten back to W). She has also asked me if she could come out with us again in the future.

I suppose she did tell me in Feb what she wanted, and has stood firm on that. I can't really blame her for pursuing what she requested back then.