My sitch is on a downer. I can't believe how my W is trying to go full steam ahead with D day.
I have been doing a great job detaching from W over the last week, after she admitted to her family about her R with OM (she lied and said it just started).
She has been happier over the last few days.
Then I find a Real Estate brochure (for sale of our house), and SIL rang me to tell me that W is so happy that the D papers are coming through.
I can't believe that OM has such a strong influence in making her want to rush things. I wonder if it is OM or just her not wanting to be in the same house as me.
When she left tonight to go to Rock Climbing (OM will be there) she told me she was on a "High" (because she was sick as a dog yesterday, vomiting and stayed in bed all day).
She talked to me with a smile on her face, and was happy.
She also told SIL that she felt really bad about hurting me, but she had absolutley no feelings for me, and doesn't want to be in the same house as me.
She tells everyone else, but hides it from me. I find it so unfair that she is doing all this behind my back, and then wanting to spring it on me.
Man, I think sometimes when a person is so committed to changing their lives, no amount of DBing will work.
Last edited by andyv; 06/05/0709:23 AM.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
