Ali - He's not going to throw it away over you calling him about that woman calling you. To my mind, you didn't do anything wrong. You didn't even talk to the BF for Pete's sake, just spoke to your H about it.
If he wants to make a big deal about this, it's because he's LOOKING for an excuse, imho. Ignore him, ignore the behavior, go a little bit dark. It is NOT okay for him to react in this way.
Ellie
thank you for saying it is not ok,, I am crying so hard right now,, GOD bless you! No it is NOT ok. Thanks sweetie. You made me feel somewhat better. I do plan on going a little dark this was way too much for me. I just read your post,, I missed it for some reason when I signed on. venting here has helped me .. thank YOU for your kind words!... ALI
