Piecing - H still contacts OW

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Journaling. in general things are moving along. We have been busy preparing for the move back home. This is a long distance move so there are lots of things that I need to take care of.
We had a big argument last week. Basically the same old, same old. I am resentful that he is not open with me of what he is doing now, he accuses me of not giving him time. This week I am good and leave out the R talk for a few days now. I need to keep on doing this. It is tough because I can sense my anger surfacing. Good that I am reading many advices here from people about how I really need to give him time and space. We will be moving soon so I suspect this will be a trying time as I don't know what OW will do. And I don't know what H will do. While the world is small and they can still keep in touch online, the move will be a big milestone because they won't be seeing each other (regardless if they are doing now or not). So I am guessing the emotions are probably running wild for these two.
Meanwhile, I am very busy as I want to catch up with all my friends before I leave (esp. those who have helped me through this past year). I know H is probably texting/emailing OW when i am not home and he is bored. But I have decided I cannot watch him all the time. If he has no respect for me and email/txt her when I am busy, that's his choice and it is his choice to damage our M.