KiKi,

Take it one day at a time,,don't read too much into H not liking what you made for dinner,,sounds like you worked hard on it & that it was ready when he came home but try and think,,"Oh Well",,you can't please everyone all the time! \:\/

Sounds like H is putting the ball in your court as to how long your going to stay depending on your feelings?? Go slowwww,,give it some time,,don't pressure! I've heard "in piecing" you experience lots of bumps in the road, that is expected, you also have to look at it from the stand point of,,YOU are the one living w/him NOT OW!! Your playing it to win, maybe some desperate act on her end to get you out of the picture!!

You gotta let her know that you are in it for the long haul by DBing your butt off again,,be happy,,that will chap her a$$ b/c H came home to eat dinner w/you!!

You can do it sista, I have the utmost faith in you,

Kim


M44H44 M18 T22
Sep7yrs-3/10
S23,22,15,11
10/07I file
2/08D postponed by H
2/09D on
3/09H moves in
8/09I kick H out
9/09H-PA
10/09-2/10mediate
3/10OW discoved
5/10H&OW engaged
7/10DDay w/atty