Ali-
Does it make sense for your H to be reacting this way? Seems to me that if it is his opinion that you shouldn't get involved, then he should be expressing it rationally...not telling you he is done. Of course, from what I understand about MLC, they aren't very rational when it comes to their spouses. So, that being said, how are you to know how he is going to react over anything? Why are you beating yourself up over this? It just might have been that he was destine to have this drama no matter what you did. Try not to stress about it and see what happens. Take the attitude that you didn't deserve his reaction and he is the one in the wrong! Just my humble opinion.

UD