Sometimes understanding why they may be doing/saying something helps us decide our reaction to it.

Spew is almost always a result of scared. Scared of the unknown, scared of what they see in themselves, scared at what others think of them.

Being nice works better than being mean or sarcastic!

Nice work, Lawless!


Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs