Secrets

[Betterman]

Interestingly enough, that's exactly what I did. I went on to express a few more opinions about her recent behaviors. I labeled them as such, my opinions, but also told her how they made me feel and how I believed that they were harmful.

Also interestingly enough, the comment on her being 17 was pretty conservative...I said 14! HA! I told her that she was acting like a kid trying to be sly. I followed that up with telling her that I had respect for her privacy, but this wasn't about that, it was about how she feels that she needs to hide things from me, and confronted her on her motivations for that, as well as to take a good look in the mirror and ask herself why she really needed the secrets.

I am giving her another week to think about that and some other weighty things which I mentioned. She said that she needed time to think about them. I presented alot of new stuff which I had been holding onto for I thought too long. So we shall see.

BTW, frank, what's the sitch with you and your SO/WAW or whatever she is now?