ERC,
What a roller coaster of a day for you! At least you have the right name.

ROOT gave some great advice. I would not mention MC again to her. If she brings it up, say you have to check your schedule and get back to her later. I also love the ideas about separating finances to "help get the divorce going". Beautiful, lets her get a taste of the "freedom" that she wants. As Chris Christoferson wrote "Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose."

Focus on you and the kids, forget about her and let her worry about her!

SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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