lawless, The way I see it, you have two options: 1) let the dust settle, call her up and apologize for allowing your anger to get the better of you; or 2) take her to court.
When they are in mlc, if you threaten them, you better be ready to follow through because if you don't, they'll continue to do what they want and when they want.
I'm very sorry that she's acting like this.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
