Well, that may have been too strong a word. But you're on the right track.

I don't HAVE to agree with, respond to favorably, or go along with any step taken in this divorce. Will it get incredibly expensive? Yep. But how much is my M worth? It's priceless.

And I have to stand up for the M, or no one else will. I have to stand up to my W so she knows I'll stand up FOR her.

I have to let the lawyers know that they are not going to steamroll this into divorce, so they can move on to the next case.

I will work on things WITH my W as a partner. \:\)


We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...