Oh Simes,
Once again you bring wonderful words of wisdom, thank you!!

But remember how long it took for us to learn this.

It took me years to get to that place because it was so hard to believe that I could really be happy and have a life without him in it.

And the strangest part was that once I actually got to that place, he wanted to come home.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.