I'm sorry to hear that you are getting divorced, but it sounds like you found the inner peace that you were searching for. I am currently struggling with a 6 month separation from my h because he up and left me for ow. He has changed a lot in the last two months and is starting to come around, but I think that it is going to take him too long and I am tired of waiting. My patience is wearing thin.
Did your wife ever show remorse and talk about coming back, or has she been 100% for the D since the beginning? My h actually had D papers drawn up in January, but hasn't proceeded with the D since then. My h is remorseful, talks about coming home, and actually made an appt to see a C. I see these as positive steps, but I just don't know how long to wait. Just wanted your insight.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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