I am going to leave him alone, but with his job the only way for him to see our daughter is to come to the house. He works 18 hour days. He is staying with his mother right now, but most of his stuff is still here. I am worried that this will effect her and I knwo it will to some point, but I don't wnat her to think it is her fault. I do agree that I have been doing what I did in the past and all it does is make matters worst. I am a fixer and hate when things are up in the air. He said he would call later tonight, but I doubt he will. He also said taht he would come see our D, but I am sure with the way things are right now he won't. Does anyone have any research on how to protect a child during a seperation?